What you do shouldn't define who you are.

Just because you do something others don't approve of, it doesn't define who you are.

just because she had sex, doesn't mean she’s a slut.

just because she didn't have sex, doesn't mean she’s a saint.

just because he fingered a girl, doesn't mean he’s a man-whore.

just because he hasn’t fingered a girl, doesn’t mean he’s completely innocent.

just because he/she smoked weed, doesn't mean she/he is a smoker.

just because he/she doesn't smoke weed, doesn't mean they’re against it.

just because he/she hangs out with the wrong crowd, doesn't mean he/she does what they do. 

What you do shouldn't define who you are. 

the truth is, i hate being judge by someone who don't even know my name. and even if they know my name, still they don't know what my stories. what experiences i have been through. the way i behave like that, everything has their own reason and own stories. a reason that might be no one could ever understand and a stories that would be better to leave untold. how many time  do i need to make my self clear. 

people loves to judge. we can't change that fact. but we can learn how to accept everybody's vulnerability.  we need to appreciate each other as we all are human being that we not perfect.